I have this friend.
Hii.
A few days ago I went to a friend's party. She invited this girl that I have been friends with for a while, but that day that gril who was invited really made me think if I consider her a friend.
The party was going good, but this one boy started picking on me like he usually does and that girl just laughed, she also ditched her best friend to run off with the boys, plus she also went to a place where she knew she wasn't allowed to go with these boys.
She made alot of the girls quite angry with her for her selfishness, rudeness and the way she was acting. This girl has always been like this though. For instence last year she went out with this boy who picked on me constantly, so one day after school he called me some foul name which really hurt me and the girl well guess what all she did was laugh and that made me real angry.
My mum dislikes this girl a bit to, cause my mum is always saying ''Hello, how are you'' trying to be nice to her and all this girl does is either ignore her or speak rudely to my mum.
The girl, she is funny and out-going but she does annoy me and make me quite upset sometimes. I don't know if she is exactly ''friend'' material.
But she is best friend's with one of my close friend's and I don't want to loose that relationship with her over a girl who is quite frankly two-faced.
This may sound mean to some but sometimes I wish she never came to Tamworth.
I don't know what to do, if to keep been friend's with her or not?!
Please help me by telling me your point of veiw!
x.X.x casey-maree x.X.x
A few days ago I went to a friend's party. She invited this girl that I have been friends with for a while, but that day that gril who was invited really made me think if I consider her a friend.
The party was going good, but this one boy started picking on me like he usually does and that girl just laughed, she also ditched her best friend to run off with the boys, plus she also went to a place where she knew she wasn't allowed to go with these boys.
She made alot of the girls quite angry with her for her selfishness, rudeness and the way she was acting. This girl has always been like this though. For instence last year she went out with this boy who picked on me constantly, so one day after school he called me some foul name which really hurt me and the girl well guess what all she did was laugh and that made me real angry.
My mum dislikes this girl a bit to, cause my mum is always saying ''Hello, how are you'' trying to be nice to her and all this girl does is either ignore her or speak rudely to my mum.
The girl, she is funny and out-going but she does annoy me and make me quite upset sometimes. I don't know if she is exactly ''friend'' material.
But she is best friend's with one of my close friend's and I don't want to loose that relationship with her over a girl who is quite frankly two-faced.
This may sound mean to some but sometimes I wish she never came to Tamworth.
I don't know what to do, if to keep been friend's with her or not?!
Please help me by telling me your point of veiw!
x.X.x casey-maree x.X.x
She sounds very insecure. Crazy to hear, i know but hear me out.... She sounds like she wants to stay on top of everyone, she wants to be the best and be friends with everyone, and she wants them to be afraid too. You seem a little afraid, although you might not realise it. Maybe not directly but you're afraid to stand up to her. Not like in the movies where they're like, "I'm not taking this anymore lyk omg I hate you!"
Talk to her. If she is a real friend, she'll listen. Tell her her actions are hurting you, and you want her to be more considerate. And tell her best friend too, that you don't like it. That way she'll understand.
And any friend that won't stand by you, especially when you're hurting, is not a friend at all, but if they're a true friend, there is nothing to worry about.
And if you figure out that they're not your true friend, it'll be hard and it might hurt a lot, but it'll save a lot more pain in the future, i can guarantee you.
And just do whatever you feel is best. =D
Hope this helped =]
Teh munkeh, July 30th, 2007 at 11:28:01pm
Dude, there is always a girl like that at school...and even if you try to be friends with her...by the way you described the story, it seems that she's just going to create drama and be a ho and get into fights with you. So I wouldn't waste your time with her. Trust me, I've been in the same kind of situation.
insomniac<3333, July 24th, 2007 at 02:29:38am
Just because your friend likes her doesnt mean you should have to hate your bestfriend.
communication.
Tholomew Plague, July 23rd, 2007 at 09:55:15pm
SHE ISH MY BEST FRIEND.
AND THAT WAS MY PARTY.
OMG. BASH THE GUY. D:
Skippy., July 23rd, 2007 at 11:54:31am
You don't have to be friends with her just because she's best friends with one of your close friends..
It's up to you whether or not you like her. If your friend can't accept that you don't like her best friend then she also has some issues. Don't let it bother you. When the girls friends calls you name tell them to f*ck off, and if she laughs at you along with them, tell her to get the f*ck away from you.
She's not worth your worries from the way you described her.
Tre Cool Junkeh, July 23rd, 2007 at 10:24:48am
...You dont have to be friends with her to remain friends with your friend. And if your friend thinks you do, then thats retarded.
Slappy, July 23rd, 2007 at 08:48:48am
hm, from what you described about her, i can make out that she really wants to make herself seem 'cool' around guys. She wants guys attention, and i think thats pretty hard to break. Just be honest with yourself, and dont lie to her if she ever asks you anything.
ANd if the guy keep picking on you, you tell him what you think, or just a simple 'eff you' might do. You have to make sure that you are letting ihm knw that you are really angry about what he is doing to you, and that you are not going to let him keep pissing you off without a fight.
I am not sure if what i have said may help, but i hope you do what you think is right.
Vegemite, July 23rd, 2007 at 08:27:28am