Is this for real?
Have you ever fallen in love with someone you've never met? No guys, I'm not talking about that major crush you have on that kick ass rockstar. Well, if not then let me tell you a bit about my situation, here it goes:
A couple months back, I met a guy in a chat room, and seeing as though it's not usual for a Goth guy to be seen around South africa, I added him to Mxit (random ass IM thing in South Africa, you get it on your phone.) We started talking and I added him to MySpace, we both got on really well, all into the same music, the same views on life and everything, we even managed to help eachother through some tough things, so naturally, we ended up flirting and now we're basically a 'Mxit couple' if you wanna call it that, but I know for a fact that he does the same things with other girls, you just have to take one look at his MySpace profile to figure that one out. At the same time, I chose to ignore all that stuff, because I feel so strongly for him. Now I've found myself inlove with him and we've never even met, we might meet up next year March but I'm sorta scared cuz I have this thing where if I like someone, I get really nervous around them and end up not speaking much, so as I don't screw up by saying something stupid, as a result of this 'disease' if you may wish to call it that, I've ended up losing alot of boyfriends and I'd hate to throw away everything I have with this guy...even if it may not be much to him, I have now found myself desperately inlove with him...help!
A couple months back, I met a guy in a chat room, and seeing as though it's not usual for a Goth guy to be seen around South africa, I added him to Mxit (random ass IM thing in South Africa, you get it on your phone.) We started talking and I added him to MySpace, we both got on really well, all into the same music, the same views on life and everything, we even managed to help eachother through some tough things, so naturally, we ended up flirting and now we're basically a 'Mxit couple' if you wanna call it that, but I know for a fact that he does the same things with other girls, you just have to take one look at his MySpace profile to figure that one out. At the same time, I chose to ignore all that stuff, because I feel so strongly for him. Now I've found myself inlove with him and we've never even met, we might meet up next year March but I'm sorta scared cuz I have this thing where if I like someone, I get really nervous around them and end up not speaking much, so as I don't screw up by saying something stupid, as a result of this 'disease' if you may wish to call it that, I've ended up losing alot of boyfriends and I'd hate to throw away everything I have with this guy...even if it may not be much to him, I have now found myself desperately inlove with him...help!
i agree with Jessika.Orgasmatic about the world being a f*cked up place. thats so f*cking true.
but i kinda know how you feel. over the summer i kinda fell in love with a guy on gsb cause we talked everyday and he helped me with problems in my life and i tried to help him. but most of his problems were with his girlfriend. and if i go on, you might know who he is. (and its not syco. although he's pretty cool)
anyway, im sorry that he does this to other girls too. that has to suck if you really like him. but be careful. dont let your guard down for him if yu guys ever meet or anything. he could take it away and screw you over. so definatly be careful.
and if you guys do meet, dont worry about not talking. i know that sounds weird. cause theres this thing like its weird when you talk over IM or computer than when yu talk over the phone. like on the computer, its more rehersed. but when you do see him, be confident. he might be the same way. like he may be really shy. just dont worry about that and have a good time.
i hope this helps a little
whatashame, November 25th, 2007 at 01:51:23am
Okay.
heres the thing babe. You see, I don't believe in internet relationships....at all. Its a joke to me. For one, you don't know if what he says to you is a lie or not. You may think you do, but honestly you have no idea. He could be lying about everything just to impress you. He could be some lonley guy just looking for attention, and by that he's flirting with girls.
If you do meet him...be careful. The world is one f*cked up place, which I am sure you know. Go with someone.
So no...I don't believe its real. Because you can't be inlove over the internet. I thought I had fallen in love with someone over the internet once, and I met him, and I was completley wrong. Its a lot different to have a boyfriend who you just talk to, than one you can physically be with. What if he's a pressuring bastard? What if he lies alot? What if he is a completley different person that what he seems like now? I wouldn't fall to hard babe. Its not going to work, really. Unless you spend time around this guy and you actually adore him and he's everything you thought he was, and you get to see eachother quite often, than thats perfect! I'll be happy for yoU!
But chances are...that's not gonna happen.
I hope for the best,
don't get to attatched.
Jessie.Tastic!, November 24th, 2007 at 07:32:37pm
If he does the same thing with other girls, make sure he's aware that you're looking for more than online flirts. Talk to him.
Lissie!, November 24th, 2007 at 03:01:08pm