How do I get rid of him?
Basically, this guy I met the other day is obsessed with me.
I thought he was pretty cool to start with but now he's just scaring me. As well as other stuff, he sent me this email describing his fantasy in detail, saying all this stuff he wants to do to me. It was just sick. I mean, I've known him less than a week, and I don't even like him that way. I never did.
I don't want anything to do with him.
I'm trying to ignore him, but it's hard when he keeps calling me and texting me and my parents keep asking who he is and why I'm avoiding him.
He's not a nice guy. He's very creepy and I want to get rid of him.
I don't know what to do.
I know I should just be honest with him and let him know I'm not interested and I was just messing around with him, but I know that never goes down well and this guy really scares me.
My friend says to tell him I'm gay and that she's my girlfriend. That would probably work, and it's half-true anyway (I'm bi). But I'd feel bad about lying.
Then there's my last option, which is to carry on avoiding him and hope he gets the message and leaves me alone.
What should I do?
I only got into this situation because I was really fucked up about my ex and my best friend going out :[
Help. Please?
I thought he was pretty cool to start with but now he's just scaring me. As well as other stuff, he sent me this email describing his fantasy in detail, saying all this stuff he wants to do to me. It was just sick. I mean, I've known him less than a week, and I don't even like him that way. I never did.
I don't want anything to do with him.
I'm trying to ignore him, but it's hard when he keeps calling me and texting me and my parents keep asking who he is and why I'm avoiding him.
He's not a nice guy. He's very creepy and I want to get rid of him.
I don't know what to do.
I know I should just be honest with him and let him know I'm not interested and I was just messing around with him, but I know that never goes down well and this guy really scares me.
My friend says to tell him I'm gay and that she's my girlfriend. That would probably work, and it's half-true anyway (I'm bi). But I'd feel bad about lying.
Then there's my last option, which is to carry on avoiding him and hope he gets the message and leaves me alone.
What should I do?
I only got into this situation because I was really fucked up about my ex and my best friend going out :[
Help. Please?
I think you should maybe just try to stay out his way, but if all else fails, you gotta find something in you and tell him you have a boyfriend. Everybody has to do things they don't like to do at some point in life, and this is one of those times for you. Hope this helps...
And if he asks for another chance, just tell him "no." Straight off, with no "buts.." after it. It worked for me and my ex.
SummerBreakdown.x, September 23rd, 2007 at 05:51:22pm
phone the police.
NiMrOd_1995, September 23rd, 2007 at 01:13:56pm
U would tell him u don't like him and if he tries anything tell him you'll get a TRO
FaLlEn _ AnGeL, September 23rd, 2007 at 12:11:46am
Thanks guys :]
I told him he was wasting his time on me and that it would be better if we didn't talk anymore. Right now he's all "please, give me another chance" etc. but at least now it's sorted, hopefully he'll give up soon and leave me alone.
Thanks again x
fallenleaves, September 22nd, 2007 at 10:32:57pm
I know it's hard but the best option is to just say, nicely, "I'm not interested, please leave me alone". If he keeps on, tell your parents or a teacher because that's basically harassment. Hope it works out for you... good luck =]
Teh munkeh, September 22nd, 2007 at 10:22:04pm
*hugs* Of course you don't want to hurt him.. I understand that, but either way he'll be hurt in some way. In the nicest way tell him that you are not interested... I'm not sure what I would do if I were in your situation, however, if that doesn't work there are other ways... Hmm, I'm sure you'll get something figured out.
threeam., September 22nd, 2007 at 10:01:26pm