Mental and verbal abuse.
Why.
My mother has been verbally abusing me my entire life.
'she's just a bitch, Ignore her'
'Ugh, You look like you just climbed out of a dumpster'
'You look like a dog with that stupid necalce you made'
'I'm not taking 3 steps out of this house with you looking like a tramp-punk rocker'
'Sadly,makeup doesn't make you pretty hun.'
It goes on. She's said those things and way more to me, My entire life. My mother, The woman who raised me, Nurtured me, Fed me from her own breast.
Why? Why is it that she feels the need to cut me down? Ive always wanted her to love me unconditionally.. No matter how I look.
There is no excuse at all for my birth mother, to abuse me like this. I wish people could see the consecuenses of our actions.
My mother has been verbally abusing me my entire life.
'she's just a bitch, Ignore her'
'Ugh, You look like you just climbed out of a dumpster'
'You look like a dog with that stupid necalce you made'
'I'm not taking 3 steps out of this house with you looking like a tramp-punk rocker'
'Sadly,makeup doesn't make you pretty hun.'
It goes on. She's said those things and way more to me, My entire life. My mother, The woman who raised me, Nurtured me, Fed me from her own breast.
Why? Why is it that she feels the need to cut me down? Ive always wanted her to love me unconditionally.. No matter how I look.
There is no excuse at all for my birth mother, to abuse me like this. I wish people could see the consecuenses of our actions.
Parents will always judge and critasize you no matter what, but at the end of the day she's still your mum and you love her and she loves you. You just don't show it to each other, if something happend to your mum you would regret wishing that she was dead (etc) At the end of the day nothing can change your relationship, but you can try.
When my dad died my mum wouldn't talk to me, she still doesn't and even a few times hurt me in the most possible way. Talking is a good way, talking to a trusted friend helps alot.
schooldropout, June 21st, 2007 at 05:24:04am
im sorry about that... my mum is all child therapy but she doesnt seem to use in on me. im an only child and i come home and sit in my room. since before i had a pc in here. ive never had a tv. she calls me unsociallable but she never talks to me. shes 'busy' or im being 'immature'. nothing as bad as your mum, but im f*cking crazy here. i talk to inanimate objects and have difficulty being around people sometimes...
i hope the shrink stuff goes well... ive always hated shrinks... idk why.
Lyddy r teh Snaily, June 19th, 2007 at 10:38:40am
wow i´m sorry :( i don't speak with my mother, but she doesn't insult me so often, she forces me to do things that i dont want, maybe i´m wrong and i should get her advices, but for me is horrible to do those things,,, she insults me when we argue, but now i really ignore her, if i were in ur place i wouldn't mind my mother´s insults, but i think that u love her so it must be very hard :(
mmm that is your´s mother problem, she has low self-steem and needs to do that to feel better, u are not guilty and u havent done anything wrong..
elena1990billiejoe, June 19th, 2007 at 10:10:26am
my mother is like that
except she refuses to admit she's done anything wrong and puts on the fake show for outsiders to think we're a happy family
I cant love a woman for whom I have lost all admiration and respect.
paper heart., June 19th, 2007 at 06:10:59am
I dont get it at all so i would know what it is like, all i can say is that you have to keep working on getting rid of it.
Vegemite, June 19th, 2007 at 05:57:55am
O__O!
you shouldnt have to take that!
im sorry *hugs*.
I get the same from my brothers, and step brothers...geh.
Casper is not amused, June 19th, 2007 at 04:58:38am
My mum always critisizes what I wear.
Talk to her maybe.
Skippy., June 19th, 2007 at 04:35:33am
I haven't talked to her about it. But weve had 2 different Psychologeist tell me and her, that I have exstreemly low self essteem. Weve had the third therapist and I have a good feeling about it this time. But I'm still left with the marks. I wish someday, I can forgive ehr.
Dance Dance. Fool!, June 19th, 2007 at 04:30:36am
Hmm.
I know you might have heard this before, and you might think it won't work - but maybe try talking to your mum. It might not seem like it will work, but if you tell her, she might have a good long hard think about how she's making you feel.
If that doesn't work, maybe try getting professional help. I know, it sounds even stupider than the first idea. But it might help - talking to someone about it might ease the situation and encourage her to change.
The Brightside., June 19th, 2007 at 04:28:32am