Birth control

*Sarah*:

And i'm not a young girl
I'm sixteen years of age- so i concented to it.

It is still pretty much pointless if you aren't having sex...

Well i don't want to be a slut like some girls around here where i live.

*Sarah*:

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i definately think the pill should be given out. i use it (for like acne medicine), but i think its a good thing that prevents poverty, regret, unwanted children, and children having to move to differnet homes in foster care. i go to a catholic school (:/) which constantly tells us it's wrong, but i totally disagree, cuz it has more pros than cons.

acne medicine???!!! No offence but i kinda see that as abuse of the pill...there are planty of less dramatic but well working solutions such as adapaline jell.

that isnt abuse of the pill... most people think thats its for birth control but itsnot it controls your hormones as well. Acne is to do with your hormones so if its helping then theres no abuse

I know it controls hormones but i would have thought any doctor would be a bit less melodramatic about acne!

going on the pill isnt a big thing... maybe its the only way to get of it in her case

Me and my mum were discussing it and apparrently it's best to be on it for as little time as possible as it's dangerous when you come off it if you've been on it for a long time, which is why i think using it for acne treatment isn't such a good idea..

Well i've already decided [until i have sex that is] that i want to stay on the pill anyway. I'm also on the pill because it helps me with my period pains, and it does a fucking great job cause i feel no pain
Anyway *coughs* unless i like the feel of a condom when i actually have sex, i might change my mind.
But the thought of something rubber in you.. egh. Sick.
But like i said, i will have to try it firstly.

So you plan to have sex without a condom and increase the risk of pregancy (the pillm isn't perfect) and get stds?

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*Sarah*:

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i definately think the pill should be given out. i use it (for like acne medicine), but i think its a good thing that prevents poverty, regret, unwanted children, and children having to move to differnet homes in foster care. i go to a catholic school (:/) which constantly tells us it's wrong, but i totally disagree, cuz it has more pros than cons.

acne medicine???!!! No offence but i kinda see that as abuse of the pill...there are planty of less dramatic but well working solutions such as adapaline jell.

that isnt abuse of the pill... most people think thats its for birth control but itsnot it controls your hormones as well. Acne is to do with your hormones so if its helping then theres no abuse

I know it controls hormones but i would have thought any doctor would be a bit less melodramatic about acne!

going on the pill isnt a big thing... maybe its the only way to get of it in her case

Me and my mum were discussing it and apparrently it's best to be on it for as little time as possible as it's dangerous when you come off it if you've been on it for a long time, which is why i think using it for acne treatment isn't such a good idea..

Well i've already decided [until i have sex that is] that i want to stay on the pill anyway. I'm also on the pill because it helps me with my period pains, and it does a fucking great job cause i feel no pain
Anyway *coughs* unless i like the feel of a condom when i actually have sex, i might change my mind.
But the thought of something rubber in you.. egh. Sick.
But like i said, i will have to try it firstly.

So you plan to have sex without a condom and increase the risk of pregancy (the pillm isn't perfect) and get stds?

fuck i've fucked up again.
I never seem to type up anything right up lately.
God alive.
Anyway.
Right. What i meant to type was, is that i'm allerigic to rubber. And what is rubber? Condoms obviously- so i wouldn't really know if it would bother me down there- i would have to wait and see. [And talk to my doctor about that actually- only now its hit me] Fuck i'm so slow
My opinion anyway is that if the doctor thinks that the girl is suffering with really bad acne and period pains, then give it to her. Cause trust me- it was fucking hell.
Being bullied is the worst thing possable, and to be called pizza face etc really put me down, even though my great mates stuck up for me and i stuck up for myself- i was crying out inside.
I hated the way i looked- and sometimes i still do.
But the pill has changed my life in great ways.
And i think- unless your current boyfriend is an absolute lying prick, and fucks anything that breathes- that you can only catch std's if you sleep around.

Ok ok i back down...you may be partially right...but y'know i get cramp pretty much all the time without actually being on my period..and it sucks like hell and i have pretty evil acne...i am not on the pill though...

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Ok ok i back down...you may be partially right...but y'know i get cramp pretty much all the time without actually being on my period..and it sucks like hell and i have pretty evil acne...i am not on the pill though...

Lol, it's okay. I do repsect your opinion though.
My dad didn't want me to have it, he got a bit worried lol.
But anyway, i decided to test it out. And it worked.
Yes, it does suck. I inherited it from my god damn mother.
But everything is okay now, and that's that.

Everyone has a opinion- and in my opinion, whoever debates about these things only makes them better friends.
Cause friends debate.

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Anji:

I agree. I don't see what's the big deal about killing something that's not even alive. But the thing about pharmasicts denying coustomers The Pill. That's really amazingly stupid. It's not their business, if the person wants to take a pill, then they should let them.

But thats the difference- it is alive. Inside of you.
And your its mother.

Think about it, it's just a glob of protiens and other cells. It's not alive until after the gestation (sp?) period.

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Anji:

I agree. I don't see what's the big deal about killing something that's not even alive. But the thing about pharmasicts denying coustomers The Pill. That's really amazingly stupid. It's not their business, if the person wants to take a pill, then they should let them.

But thats the difference- it is alive. Inside of you.
And your its mother.

Think about it, it's just a glob of protiens and other cells. It's not alive until after the gestation (sp?) period.

there is nothing alive inside of you if you have sex and are on birth control, birth control changes your hormones so you cant get pregnant...its not like you fuck and the egg gets fertilized and the pill goes oops and it kills it, thats not how it works, it makes it so that you cant fertilize the egg, which means nothing is alive

yea, it tricks your body into thinking you're already one month pregnant so you can't actually get pregnant, i think.

I think its ridiculous that in certain places, if a woman isn't married, she can be denied contraceptives. Or at least, my dad's friend who lives in the US overheard a conversation between a pharamascist and a customer, and when she tried to buy contraceptives, he asked her if she was married, and when she said no, he refused to sell them to her. =/
I also agree with Dom that the Catholic church may need to rethink its views on contraceptives because of the AIDS empidemic.

Two words:

PRO CHOICE

H-F-P-R

I understand it's their religion and I fully expect that but they've gotta be joking. So a thirteen-year-old gets raped.
. . .
See?
What can she do? She'll be an outcast to her family for having the baby but she wouldn't be 'allowed' to have an abortion.
Which I guess is talking about abortions rather than birth control. But you see my point.

95% of the people that fight abortion is... Fat-ass old guys! The rest is... Well... Those women can't be described, usually. And there's the people that follows them just to have somebody to follow.

Society.

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Okay, I'm sure we've all heard about Christians fighting birth control and pharmasicts denying coustomers The Pill.

So, do you think it should be banned or should it still be able to be distributed?

In my personal opinion, I don't see a problem with it. If the egg never formed into a fetus it's not killing (in my opinion).

As for the pharmasicts, it's their JOB to give paying customers the perscriptions they need. I don't understand why someone would go into that field and then turn around and say 'No' to a woman trying to fill her brith control.

-agrees with everything-
besides, it's not just the 'killing' thing, some forms of contreceptions prevent STDs/Is

birth control is a good thing... it can help teenage girls have relationships, not babies, and prevent families from growing too big too fast and losing any hopes of a college fund...

the pill can be used for slowing down period bleeds and like some one said before acne, also there is an injection out called Depo pro vera that stops your bleedng totally and it is supposed to but it is a hell of an injection and it can make you really sick.

But i think that somtimes the pill is over used for certain things. I was on the pill and still fell pregnant with my boy.

i, as a christian, think its okay to take 'the pill'. some women use it beacuse they develop serious symptoms of PMS, or have 'deathly' menstrual cramps.
when taking the pill to prevent pregnancy it has the same principle as a condom or other form of birth control, i think its completely fine to take it, as a christian. my mom is strong about her beleifs and i know that she used to take it (shes told me about it before), so ya its okay!

I think that birth control should be allowed. Some people just see sex as making a life. But the majority see it as showing their love and some as just having fun. If pharmacist weren't allowed to sell birth control imagine the amount of unwanted children to be born. The population would probably increase. There would also be more abortions so the easier option would be to give them condoms, the pill and any other methods of contraception. It's a pharmacists job to sell or ive advice and contraception to people. They should just be able to do their job.

The pill should be allowed.
It wouldn't kill/destroy the baby, if it hasn't even been fully formed yet.

i think that birth control is a good thing. it helps stop unwanted pregnances, which in the end leads to less abortions.