Sex.
We all have urges. Everyone does even if their beliefs support it or not. We are human.
I am a high school student and it seems every year that the Freshman class gets sluttier and sluttier. I remember being one too and having that urge to fit in. I know what its like to just want to be accepted, you are in a big school with older people and you want to look cool. I understand completely.
But some girls really need to get their heads out of there asses.
These older boys who are tired of girls their own age hook up with these insecure freshman girls and make them think that they are just the world. I know what its like, I’ve had it happen. They tell them that they are the only one for them, they play with their heart and than they finally get the girl in bed.
So now the insecure freshman girl feels like she is just the greatest now. She had sex with an older boy! And oh ehm gee…he loves her! Haha…no. No he doesn’t.
I don’t get what’s so cool about not being a virgin. Why does everyone practically assume that you can’t get laid just because you haven’t jumped in bed with a boy three years older than you? Oh wow, you must be a nerd, right?
Now I am not saying that all freshmen girls are sluts and insecure or that all older boys just want to get said girls in bed, but typically, that’s all I see.
What ever happened to sex being the greatest physical thing you can do to show your love for someone? Whatever happened to it being about passion and not lust? One night stands absolutely make me want to scream. I sound like a hypocrite for this because I am known as the “GSB hooker” but god damn girls! Get ahold of yourself! Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn’t mean that you have to too.
I have great respect for any freshmen girl out there who doesn’t fall into that temptation and actually wants to wait until she is ready and do it with the boy she loves, because when the rest of them get HIV and dumped the next day, the ones who wait are going to be in love and laughing.
I am a high school student and it seems every year that the Freshman class gets sluttier and sluttier. I remember being one too and having that urge to fit in. I know what its like to just want to be accepted, you are in a big school with older people and you want to look cool. I understand completely.
But some girls really need to get their heads out of there asses.
These older boys who are tired of girls their own age hook up with these insecure freshman girls and make them think that they are just the world. I know what its like, I’ve had it happen. They tell them that they are the only one for them, they play with their heart and than they finally get the girl in bed.
So now the insecure freshman girl feels like she is just the greatest now. She had sex with an older boy! And oh ehm gee…he loves her! Haha…no. No he doesn’t.
I don’t get what’s so cool about not being a virgin. Why does everyone practically assume that you can’t get laid just because you haven’t jumped in bed with a boy three years older than you? Oh wow, you must be a nerd, right?
Now I am not saying that all freshmen girls are sluts and insecure or that all older boys just want to get said girls in bed, but typically, that’s all I see.
What ever happened to sex being the greatest physical thing you can do to show your love for someone? Whatever happened to it being about passion and not lust? One night stands absolutely make me want to scream. I sound like a hypocrite for this because I am known as the “GSB hooker” but god damn girls! Get ahold of yourself! Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn’t mean that you have to too.
I have great respect for any freshmen girl out there who doesn’t fall into that temptation and actually wants to wait until she is ready and do it with the boy she loves, because when the rest of them get HIV and dumped the next day, the ones who wait are going to be in love and laughing.
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Amazing Blog (:
Brian May, December 13th, 2007 at 07:21:26pm
Wow. :D.
Great blog.
ROSLYNN, November 4th, 2007 at 06:33:53pm
All my friends are like that.
They want me and my byfriend to aswell.
But he said he'd perfer to wait a few years. And so am i.
Personally; I dont ever wanna have sex.
But I've come to the conclusion that it is going to happen on day and i just have to get over it. lmao.
:] good blog.
Tholomew Plague, November 4th, 2007 at 06:46:07am
THIS IS THE BEST BLOG EVER.
mhm.
I'm a freshman.
And I plan to save myself until I'm ready.
And honestly I don't think I'm mature enough to do it anyways.
hollywood tragedy., November 4th, 2007 at 01:19:38am
*applauds* It's nice to see someone shares my exact beliefs. I'm still a virgin (duh), and it helps that I don't have peer pressure because I'm home schooled.
MikeIsMine!!!, November 4th, 2007 at 12:08:10am
"ITS OK,
SEX CAN WAIT,
GO AHEAD,
MASTERBATE!"
no no no im just kidiing. but really, im a virgin and and in 10th grade. if i ever caught myself doing it with an 11 year old when im 18 that just shows 1 thing. im f*ckin pathetic. its not only the girl's fault, its out fault too.
and hello down there, you're not the only guy commenting on this, hahha
Blarg!, November 3rd, 2007 at 10:27:26pm
I'm not even a Freshman yet, but girls in my class are having sex and dating guys who are friggin' Seniors. I kinda have something that's going on at my school that's related to this, kinda...
There's this cirl in my class, who's going out with a boy in tenth grade. Last week, a boy in my grade grabbed her butt and she did absolutely nothing about it. We've seen her flirt with him [and other guys] so much while she was going out with this older boy. Her boyfriend is actually a really great guy...he deserves someone better than her.
lishaaaaa, November 3rd, 2007 at 12:49:55pm
I agree! I see all the year 7's walking past me with their skirts extremely short and layers of make up on. I see them flirting with every guy that passes. It disgusts me because they're all 11/12/13!
Argh. I wouldn't be afraid to say I'm a virgin, I'd more be...proud?
dramamine;, November 3rd, 2007 at 08:25:25am
I'm 18 and haven't even been kissed..so..:file:
I fully agree with what you're saying. :]
vonny, November 3rd, 2007 at 06:02:44am
I think I'll have sex after marriage.
And I won't be afraid to say I'm a virgin either.
:]
Skippy., November 3rd, 2007 at 05:56:42am
THANK YOU.
This blog is amazing. It speaks the truth. I just wish more people would actually listen and understand this honesty.
threeam., November 3rd, 2007 at 05:53:58am
im a freshman and im still a virgin. im saving sex for marriage, when im with the guy of my dreams.
The Evil Alchemist, November 3rd, 2007 at 05:50:52am
damn...im the only guy commenting this ._.
i know exactly where it went.THE 80s...tis true think about it...
i-f.U.c.k., November 3rd, 2007 at 05:31:28am
I'm a virgin
and I plan on staying that way for a LONG time.
Sex has nothing to do with love.
germma margaret!, November 3rd, 2007 at 05:27:12am
*claps* this is honestly the best blog i've read on GSB. *claps harder*
get famous, November 3rd, 2007 at 05:26:13am