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NIK JONUTZ
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 | January 18th, 2011 at 10:41pm Nada.:I say wait 'til marriage, it's the right thing.
But I also laugh in my own face when I say that.
Cause I know few kids will.
It's sad ;/ you can't say it's the right thing. it's not wrong to have sex. if you choose to wait until you get married then that's your choice, but having sex is a natural thing and there is nothign wrong about it. |
wanderlust
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 | January 18th, 2011 at 10:43pm lol it's not wrong to have sex before marriage, that's a belief, and an old-world one at that |
Squid.
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| January 18th, 2011 at 10:52pm I know it isn't wrong,
I just feel it's more risky, and not really that much of a need.
I'm not religious or anything, lol.
I just honestly believe that it's the better thing to do.
I can't say it right, cause it's open to belifes.
But, yeah.
I think kids need to slow down, why, they sure are growing up awful fast these days. |
NIK JONUTZ
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| January 18th, 2011 at 10:55pm kids are, but it's because of what the are exposed to with television and videos games and everything. it makes kids very curious about it. |
Squid.
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| January 18th, 2011 at 11:06pm I suppose.
I really think it seem's quite terrifying, all that can go wrong with it.
And it's disgusting...the way that people, I have heard talk about it.
I just feel like, if two people are married,
It's more respected.
Not to say that in some relationships it isn't.
But well, yeah. |
MAD CUNT
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| January 19th, 2011 at 01:23pm Nada.:I say wait 'til marriage, it's the right thing.
But I also laugh in my own face when I say that.
Cause I know few kids will.
It's sad ;/
What if you don't want to get married? Some people don't want to get married; not because they don't love their partner, just because they don't agree with the politics of marriage (the patriarchal traditions of adopting the male surname when you get married, etc). Is it, in your opinion, 'wrong' for them to have sex?
Besides, the old argument against sex before marriage is - would you buy a car if you didn't know if the gear stick worked?  Sounds crude, but a good sex life is part of love, I think... not that I know too much on the subject  |
wanderlust
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| January 19th, 2011 at 06:32pm Brett Anderson.:Nada.:I say wait 'til marriage, it's the right thing.
But I also laugh in my own face when I say that.
Cause I know few kids will.
It's sad ;/
What if you don't want to get married? Some people don't want to get married; not because they don't love their partner, just because they don't agree with the politics of marriage (the patriarchal traditions of adopting the male surname when you get married, etc). Is it, in your opinion, 'wrong' for them to have sex?
Besides, the old argument against sex before marriage is - would you buy a car if you didn't know if the gear stick worked? Sounds crude, but a good sex life is part of love, I think... not that I know too much on the subject
off topic, but nooooo wayyyy am I changing my name if I get married
on topic, this is true, common law couples are becoming more and more common, so that in itself changes the dynamic these days. |
NIK JONUTZ
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| January 19th, 2011 at 07:22pm Brett Anderson.:
What if you don't want to get married? Some people don't want to get married; not because they don't love their partner, just because they don't agree with the politics of marriage (the patriarchal traditions of adopting the male surname when you get married, etc). Is it, in your opinion, 'wrong' for them to have sex?
Besides, the old argument against sex before marriage is - would you buy a car if you didn't know if the gear stick worked? Sounds crude, but a good sex life is part of love, I think... not that I know too much on the subject ii like this whole post. |
Squid.
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| January 19th, 2011 at 08:56pm Brett Anderson.:Nada.:I say wait 'til marriage, it's the right thing.
But I also laugh in my own face when I say that.
Cause I know few kids will.
It's sad ;/
What if you don't want to get married? Some people don't want to get married; not because they don't love their partner, just because they don't agree with the politics of marriage (the patriarchal traditions of adopting the male surname when you get married, etc). Is it, in your opinion, 'wrong' for them to have sex?
Besides, the old argument against sex before marriage is - would you buy a car if you didn't know if the gear stick worked? Sounds crude, but a good sex life is part of love, I think... not that I know too much on the subject
I'd say that's differen't.
I mean, if it's like a marriage without the marriage,
It's differen't, alright.
I don't know,
And at that point, I think you'd be older.
Maybe, I am more against young sex,
Not that of age.
Or people who have LOTS of partners.
And, that whole car saying...just ew.
If someone doesn't want to marry me, cause I wont let them shag me first.
So be it. |
NIK JONUTZ
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| January 19th, 2011 at 08:58pm sex is actually good for your health and i mean i think people are the most unhealthy in there teens so mid as well do something good for them |
wanderlust
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| January 19th, 2011 at 08:59pm sex burns mad calories eh |
NIK JONUTZ
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| January 19th, 2011 at 09:01pm YEAH DUDE!!!! i was the skinniest when i was getting it all the time! |
Squid.
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| January 19th, 2011 at 09:17pm I'm fine healthy, and skinny.
I play soccer.
I don't need it.
I am just 16. |
wanderlust
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| January 19th, 2011 at 09:24pm You don't NEED it, but if you get a boyfriend maybe you'll want to, who knows.
And if you already have boyfriend then maybe you will want to try sometime later on. |
NIK JONUTZ
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| January 19th, 2011 at 09:24pm sex feels good and i like to feel good
so why not?
also are you against ALL types of sex? |
John Entwistle
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Posts: 55036 | January 19th, 2011 at 09:39pm I'm pretty Conservative and being that I was raised Catholic, I was taught "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE". But yet, I would have sex out of marriage. Sex is important for a serious relationship.
Legal sex age is where is should be. At 18 you are considered an adult. |
Dana.
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| January 19th, 2011 at 09:57pm I would have sex before marriage, but it would have to be with someone special, and they would have to understand that I'm different on the inside and that I don't have a natural vagina. |
MAD CUNT
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| January 20th, 2011 at 06:43am Nada.:If someone doesn't want to marry me, cause I wont let them shag me first.
So be it.
Uhh, I think if their plans to marry you hinge entirely on pre-marital sex then they're probably a bit of a douche...
What I meant was more like, if they're not good at it and can't give you ~happy times~ during it/any form of sexual contact, you'll end up getting resentful of that. (Trust me on this.)
Also, if you do save yourself for your wedding night, you're probably going to have a fairly painful wedding night... just sayin' |
Squid.
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| January 20th, 2011 at 09:38am Brett Anderson.:Nada.:If someone doesn't want to marry me, cause I wont let them shag me first.
So be it.
Uhh, I think if their plans to marry you hinge entirely on pre-marital sex then they're probably a bit of a douche...
What I meant was more like, if they're not good at it and can't give you ~happy times~ during it/any form of sexual contact, you'll end up getting resentful of that. (Trust me on this.)
Also, if you do save yourself for your wedding night, you're probably going to have a fairly painful wedding night... just sayin'
So be it then.
I've made that choice.
And,
What the heck at Dana? |
Dana.
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| January 20th, 2011 at 12:52pm Nada.:What the heck at Dana? Yeah.
I don't have a vagina because of a chromosomal abnormality called MRKH.
Look it up, okay? |
