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GreenDayIsBetter
Idiot
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 662 | November 15th, 2005 at 12:34pm i so desparately disagree with you.. but i'm going to leave it at that.. no use in fighting over opinions that neither of us can change eh? |
rehabreject
Jackass
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 1308 | November 15th, 2005 at 02:23pm you guys make it sounds like marriage is a bad thing
and it also depends if you mean planned or unwanted pregnancy
if a couple are ready to have a baby together...it seems strange that they would do so without getting married, surely that's the first step towards building a strong family?
but i think that if the pregnancy was an accident or a result of rape, people should not feel pressured to get married...it wont make any difference to the situation |
Spirit Of '77
Falling In Love With The Board
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 5024 | November 15th, 2005 at 10:22pm i have nothing against it. |
The Duck's Nuts
Falling In Love With The Board
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 5766 | November 15th, 2005 at 11:03pm i don't see any problems with it...
but years and years ago... people had huge probelms with it. i am told, that back, hundresds of years or something, that if you were a Female Jew and you got pregnant and were un-married, bascially you were stoned, so they got killed aswell as their unborn baby. |
wake the dead.
This Board Is My Home
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 30440 | November 16th, 2005 at 01:02am My mother still has a problem with it. My friend's sister was already pregnant when she got married, and my mum was disgusted. |
Blank_blank
Geek
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 364 | November 16th, 2005 at 06:29am I think that what matters is as stable relationship. A bad marriage isn't preferable over a stable defacto relationship for a child. Thou a marriage is the symbol of a stable and permanant relationship, that isnt always true. |
ITSallGREENfromHERE
Geek
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 104 | November 16th, 2005 at 08:44pm heres wat i think... it is better for childeren to grow up in a stable home...BUT if u want to have kids b4 your married g ahead...im gonna wait till i find the guy thats right for me...i dont wanna get pregnant till after i decide im gonna marry him |
Baguelle
King For A Couple Of Days
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Gender: -
Posts: 2727 | November 17th, 2005 at 01:13am I think it's okay. Just don't leave each other behind. |
<3Romance<3
Jackass
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Gender: -
Posts: 1186 | November 17th, 2005 at 06:30am I think lots of my family members, my aunt for instance, would be disgusted too. But she's erm... I think narrowminded is the right word.. |
mushroom kid
Geek
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 120 | November 17th, 2005 at 02:28pm hmm i dont plan on getting married myself.. just seems so old fashioned. its more of a financial agreement in our society with the amount of divorces going on. more families are having children without getting married.. its hardly necessary.. and no longer 'improper' to have children out of wedlock.
*shrug*  |
it's hardcore honey.
Idiot
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 778 | November 17th, 2005 at 02:37pm a lot of my friends parents are not married. and those who aren't, and still are together, have been for a number of years. so i don't think it matters at all. |
Goodbye, Norma Jeane
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: 31
Gender: Female
Posts: 4724 | November 18th, 2005 at 07:52pm I don't think it matters that much. as long as the kid is well cared for then its ok. besides, there are kids with married parents worse off than kids with unmarried parents. |
Basketcase463
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 4608 | November 18th, 2005 at 08:11pm i think it should be the couples decison and religious beliefs should have nothing to do with it |
Nicky and Cambria. Haha.
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: -
Gender: -
Posts: 2787 | November 19th, 2005 at 04:55am |
Matt Smith
Admin
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 31134
  | November 19th, 2005 at 09:44am Is that a cat? (sorry my eyes are a little unfocused today) |
Basketcase463
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 4608 | November 19th, 2005 at 01:28pm why is there a cat here?  ... |
Matt Smith
Admin
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Posts: 31134
| November 19th, 2005 at 01:34pm I was thinking the same thing...  |
Basketcase463
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: -
Gender: Female
Posts: 4608 | November 19th, 2005 at 01:36pm well, its cute... and random... but also cute ... |
Rage&Love
King For A Couple Of Days
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 2462 | November 19th, 2005 at 02:08pm to me it doesnt matter, as long as the kid will be probably looked after and loved thats all that is needed isnt it? |
dirtyhippie
Geek
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 466 | November 19th, 2005 at 02:30pm Hey. Hey. Let's get back to the cat!! Aw, cute cute cute.
Anyway, I wouldn't have a kid if I wasn't married to someone, but I don't want a kid anyway...so I really have no reason to post here. |
